GAY Har de har, it's 9 weeks and a bit til Christmas

I only wear socks spun from the silk of pedigree silkworms fed on organic mulberry. Hand made to fit the birch lath carved as a replica of my own foot.
 
Host a potluck dinner! Make sure the venue is tidy and ready for a dinner party, and perhaps splurge for the meat, but then have the guests take care of the rest. It's a good way to enjoy different types of dishes and since usually potlucks are favorite homemade food items, the food is quite good. And easy clean up because the guests take back their dishes and serving utensils.

Nevre done this. It sounds magical.
 
Simply tell your boyfriend that since you pay all the bills, that's his Christmas and you aren't getting him a separate present this year. He'll understand if money is tight and not expect anything. If he doesn't, why are you with him? For friends, homemade goodies. For the boys, tell your boyfriend to get a job so he can buy them.
 
Simply tell your boyfriend that since you pay all the bills, that's his Christmas and you aren't getting him a separate present this year. He'll understand if money is tight and not expect anything. If he doesn't, why are you with him? For friends, homemade goodies. For the boys, tell your boyfriend to get a job so he can buy them.

Well he's getting me things for Christmas so really I should get things for him regardless, it doesn't have to cost much. And I'm sure if the kids went without you'd think that was entirely reasonable kiwi. Not as compassionate as I'd expect from you. There's a recession going on y'know, it can be pretty hard to find employment. :lol:
 
I'm at the age where if I want something I can buy it myself, so I have a no gift arrangement with my immediate family. Instead we get together for a nice dinner or something.

My bday slides by quitely unnoticed now which is just fine by me. Only thing I really miss is cake. (bday is three days after xmas)

It makes for a relaxing and awesome holiday instead of stressful.
 
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Well he's getting me things for Christmas so really I should get things for him regardless, it doesn't have to cost much. And I'm sure if the kids went without you'd think that was entirely reasonable kiwi. Not as compassionate as I'd expect from you. There's a recession going on y'know, it can be pretty hard to find employment. :lol:

Why should you get something for him regardless? And there is NO job whatsoever so he could earn 200 bucks between now and Christmas to find his kid a present?

I will admit, yes we get the kids presents, even when things are tight, but it's easy to say, spoil the kids, we don't need anything. So let him know things are tight and instead of getting him an actual present you are going to spend that money on the boys, is that better?

Make him a special dinner of his favorite meal instead of an actual gift. Write him a meaningful note, frame it with a pic of the two of you.
 
Why should you get something for him regardless? And there is NO job whatsoever so he could earn 200 bucks between now and Christmas to find his kid a present?

I will admit, yes we get the kids presents, even when things are tight, but it's easy to say, spoil the kids, we don't need anything. So let him know things are tight and instead of getting him an actual present you are going to spend that money on the boys, is that better?

Make him a special dinner of his favorite meal instead of an actual gift. Write him a meaningful note, frame it with a pic of the two of you.

You don't work, should shortguy refuse to get you anything or is that just your arrangement that you don't work right now? We have an arrangement by which I'm working and he's looking, I'm not going to punish him for not being able to find a job. I know myself from looking for alternative jobs that there is nothing around here right now. He is looking into making money for Christmas, he's not a complete shithead who's going to let his kids go without, he's started selling off his own personal possessions in order to get money if you must know. However I'd ideally like to get most people presents, it just seems lilke I'm going to have to be strategic about it. :) Photo frame etc. sounds like a good idea etc. We're not majorly materialistic so he doesn't expect an Xbox or something (not that he'd get it anyway). I'm a bit more concerned about my close friends to be honest, they're all great at buying presents for me but they're very picky themselves. :eek:
 
Why should you get something for him regardless? And there is NO job whatsoever so he could earn 200 bucks between now and Christmas to find his kid a present?

I will admit, yes we get the kids presents, even when things are tight, but it's easy to say, spoil the kids, we don't need anything. So let him know things are tight and instead of getting him an actual present you are going to spend that money on the boys, is that better?

Make him a special dinner of his favorite meal instead of an actual gift. Write him a meaningful note, frame it with a pic of the two of you.

Could you imagine if we combined our powers? Even Martha herself would shit.
 
Well he's getting me things for Christmas so really I should get things for him regardless, it doesn't have to cost much. And I'm sure if the kids went without you'd think that was entirely reasonable kiwi. Not as compassionate as I'd expect from you. There's a recession going on y'know, it can be pretty hard to find employment. :lol:

just give him the gift of blowjobs
 
You don't work, should shortguy refuse to get you anything or is that just your arrangement that you don't work right now? We have an arrangement by which I'm working and he's looking, I'm not going to punish him for not being able to find a job. I know myself from looking for alternative jobs that there is nothing around here right now. He is looking into making money for Christmas, he's not a complete shithead who's going to let his kids go without, he's started selling off his own personal possessions in order to get money if you must know. However I'd ideally like to get most people presents, it just seems lilke I'm going to have to be strategic about it. :) Photo frame etc. sounds like a good idea etc. We're not majorly materialistic so he doesn't expect an Xbox or something (not that he'd get it anyway). I'm a bit more concerned about my close friends to be honest, they're all great at buying presents for me but they're very picky themselves. :eek:


Yes, when money is tight short guy doesn't get me anything. We opted to have me stay at home instead of bring in an income, and there have been many Christmas's where due to that, we don't have many extra funds at Christmas time so we don't exchange gifts.
 
I don't think we will be doing anything for Christmas this year. I'll buy my son a present, but that about it.
 
Yes, when money is tight short guy doesn't get me anything. We opted to have me stay at home instead of bring in an income, and there have been many Christmas's where due to that, we don't have many extra funds at Christmas time so we don't exchange gifts.

maybe he should wrap himself up in tinsel and lights like shawn did a few years back.