Ask a gay man anything..

i don't believe all emotion is a choice at ALL. i recognize that you can choose what to do with it AFTER it presents itself to you, but the raw emotion that's the effect from some cause is not a choice at all.

Yeah how a person feels has a lot to do with the amount of serotonin and such.

We aren't real, we're just chemicals. :fly::p
 
not all the time. some people are just built to feel guilty...because they constantly measure themselves against some preset measuring stick (such as a religion's, or a family's, or society's) when that measuring stick is just not accurate for themselves. they constantly fail against this stick that isn't even right for them, and they constantly feel guilty because they aren't better, or aren't quite as mainstream (which means easily identifiable), or are lacking...even though they can't figure out what's "wrong," they don't feel "right."

But they measure themselves. So they should stop.
 
A person with a sexual attraction or sexual behavior between another of the same sex.

So I find Christano Ronaldo to be a very good looking man. Does this make me gay? Or rather bisexual since I still find my woman to be irresistible?
 
So I find Christano Ronaldo to be a very good looking man. Does this make me gay? Or rather bisexual since I still find my woman to be irresistible?

Do you find him sexually attractive, or just attractive because he is a model and has fine masculine form? Are you sexually aroused by him? Then you might be.
 
If I were single I'd totally bone him..

Then you are not completely heterosexual as you contain sexual attraction to a member of the same sex. That does not mean you are a homosexual, but rather you have homosexual tendancies less often than heterosexual tendancies.