Ask a gay man anything..

I personally don't make fun of them, but I do watch and talk to them because they are frightfully entertaining.

It might be a phase, but most likely not. Sometimes it is caused by a revolution to the years that the flamer was a closet case and this is their release, being over the top.

The lisp I have no idea where that comes from.

It would be interesting to study if the amount of gay people with lisps corresponds to the general population's predisposition to lisps.

To make this a question:

Would this be a worthwhile study?
 
It would be interesting to study if the amount of gay people with lisps corresponds to the general population's predisposition to lisps.

To make this a question:

Would this be a worthwhile study?

But how many of the gay men's lisps are real?

dbzeag certainly doesn't have one.

I grew up with a couple of guys who didn't have them until after they went to college and got into the "lifestyle".
 
I skimmed most of the thread so I apologize if I ask any questions already asked.

dbzeag have you always thought of yourself as gay or did you try the girl thing due to peer pressure etc. and decided that wasn't what you wanted?

Is your family pretty accepting?
 
I skimmed most of the thread so I apologize if I ask any questions already asked.

dbzeag have you always thought of yourself as gay or did you try the girl thing due to peer pressure etc. and decided that wasn't what you wanted?

Is your family pretty accepting?

I have always thought of myself as gay, but I have lots of guilt (obviously) about it. I never wanted to or still don't want to be gay. I would rather have the same frame of mind as 95% of the population.

I have never tried a girl, but have always wanted to. I have had the chance to, but never could rise to the occasion.

My family is accepting if I never talk about anything about relationships, sex, homosexuality, dating, kissing, holding hands, or anything like that.
 
dbzeag you need to work on releasing the guilt. You're a great guy and shouldn't be punished because you chose your own path rather than one someone else pictured for you.
 
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