A gay man asks anything

April, if you are worried about both (STD and pregnancy), why do you only follow steps to prevent one of them?
 
When did you decide the opposite sex was right for you? when did that happen for you that women were attractive? Puberty? Before?
Ive always like women. Probably started around 4th grade.

What is the fascination with lesbian activities, whether in porn or at the bar or in regular movies with two women holding hands.
Meh, it no big deal to me.

Do you think it's fair the double standard with lesbians vs. gays?
Nope.

How would you feel if you saw two men holding hands? Would you make a comment? Would you remember it later in the day or would you just let it pass because it isn't that significant?
Wouldnt care.

Do you find pregnant women attractive?
Yes. :drool:

Why does everyone love breasts?
Big, jubblie and suckable, whats not to like?

Another question, I for one am not at all interested in kids. Is this an ingrained thing to desire kids and to procreate?
Nope. My best friend doesnt want kids and he and his wife are happy.

How comfortable are you taking showers in the locker room? Changing in front of people?
I have a poor self image, so no locker rooms for me.

Are you interested in anal sex with your partner? Are you interested in recieving anal play from your partner?
I usually just go with the flow.

Do you have a couples night where your partner and you go out for dinner with another couple? Could you make it a couples night with a gay or lesbian couple?
We take any oppertunity we can to be with our friends.
Yes.

How pressured are/were you to get married or to date?
Not very... other than the nagging mom.

How pressured are/were you to have kids?
see above answer.

How worried are you about getting pregnant or getting a woman pregnant? Not verry

Do you always use a condom?
Now that im married, never! :D

Are you more worried about pregnancy or STDs?
STD's
 
Another question, I for one am not at all interested in kids. Is this an ingrained thing to desire kids and to procreate?

I think it's kind of ingrained. My body sure seems to be telling me I should have kids. Mostly though, it's the want to have the incredibly special experience of creating life and sharing the world with a child. Lots of people say it's the most rewarding thing they have ever done with their life and I want that.

How comfortable are you taking showers in the locker room? Changing in front of people?

I hate taking showers in the locker room but only because I'm afraid of all the ickiness in places like that. I don't care about changing in front of people at all.

Are you interested in anal sex with your partner? Are you interested in recieving anal play from your partner?

I must admit it's something that comes up in my fantasies, but as for actually doing it I again have an issue with cleanliness. It's not something that was designed for sex and I really don't like poop.

Do you have a couples night where your partner and you go out for dinner with another couple? Could you make it a couples night with a gay or lesbian couple?

We don't have a 'couples night' but we do hang out with couples a lot. We have in the past hung out with gay couples and we probably will again. It's no different than hanging out with a straight couple IMO.
 
How worried are you about getting pregnant or getting a woman pregnant?

Do you always use a condom?

Are you more worried about pregnancy or STDs?

I don't worry about getting pregnant at this point in life. If it happens it happens. STDs don't scare me either. Monagamy rocks! We don't use condoms cause they suck. We use spermicide and hope for the best.
 
Another question, I for one am not at all interested in kids. Is this an ingrained thing to desire kids and to procreate? Not for everyone. I used to not want kids, then I changed to indifferent about it. Now I'm excited to be having one.

How comfortable are you taking showers in the locker room? Changing in front of people? Never was a fan of it. I'd rather stay stinky for a little while and shower in my own bathroom.

Are you interested in anal sex with your partner? Are you interested in recieving anal play from your partner? No, I don't think I'd enjoy it either way.

Do you have a couples night where your partner and you go out for dinner with another couple? Could you make it a couples night with a gay or lesbian couple? Yeah, quite often. If we had a gay friend couple, then I wouldn't care. After all, they'd be my friends.

How pressured are/were you to get married or to date? None really.

How pressured are/were you to have kids? Not at all.

How worried are you about getting pregnant or getting a woman pregnant? At first, I was a little worried. But my stance on life in general is to try to not worry about things, so I don't think about them. So then I just enjoyed the sex.

Do you always use a condom? Not since I got married. And I tried to before, but it didn't always happen.

Are you more worried about pregnancy or STDs? Should have been before marriage.
 
Would you want to meet your son's boyfriend if it happened that way?

Would you blame yourself or your training of your kid if he/she was gay?
 
Would you want to meet your son's boyfriend if it happened that way? Well ya of course.

Would you blame yourself or your training of your kid if he/she was gay?No not at all. My parents on the other hand would see that differently.
 
Would you want to meet your son's boyfriend if it happened that way?

Would you blame yourself or your training of your kid if he/she was gay?

Of course I'd want to meet my son's boyfriend or my daughter's girlfriend! The happiness of my children will be all that is important to me. Finding love is tough and if they find it, I'm happy too.

What's wrong with being gay? Why does there need to be blame?