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Putz I may be, but I dont shit on people in mourning
I didn't shit on people who were morning, I suggested the guy raise the fucking bar if he is going to do a memorial after the fact - and saying he did it while burning through the game didn't help the overall effect.
Speaking at a funeral or memorial service is an "eulogy" - there you speak of what the person was to you. As the only person on this site who has had some Grief counselor training, I know it is always recommended that memorials after that reflect the person and what was important to them as much as possible, not what you think about them. Because different people had a different user experience and you don't have the right to fuck that up with your "vision" . I felt bad for the deceased. At both times. I had the balls to say "come strong or go home" - because I'm not a putz. Prick mother fucker, possibly. I can live with that. Suck my signature's left nut.
 
I didn't shit on people who were morning, I suggested the guy raise the fucking bar if he is going to do a memorial after the fact - and saying he did it while burning through the game didn't help the overall effect.
Speaking at a funeral or memorial service is an "eulogy" - there you speak of what the person was to you. As the only person on this site who has had some Grief counselor training, I know it is always recommended that memorials after that reflect the person and what was important to them as much as possible, not what you think about them. Because different people had a different user experience and you don't have the right to fuck that up with your "vision" . I felt bad for the deceased. At both times. I had the balls to say "come strong or go home" - because I'm not a putz. Prick mother fucker, possibly. I can live with that. Suck my signature's left nut.
Why don't you just shut the fuck up about it? If you had any sense of shame or decency you'd have done it a long time ago.
 
Why don't you just shut the fuck up about it? If you had any sense of shame or decency you'd have done it a long time ago.

If you go any further with that shame and decency stuff you're going to transition from Missouri Synod Lutheran to full blown Roman Catholic (minus the repetitive chants).
 
Tattoos are just another form of self-mutilation, like those people who cut themselves.
Unless you were in the Navy, then it's OK.
 
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I didn't shit on people who were morning, I suggested the guy raise the fucking bar if he is going to do a memorial after the fact - and saying he did it while burning through the game didn't help the overall effect.
Speaking at a funeral or memorial service is an "eulogy" - there you speak of what the person was to you. As the only person on this site who has had some Grief counselor training, I know it is always recommended that memorials after that reflect the person and what was important to them as much as possible, not what you think about them. Because different people had a different user experience and you don't have the right to fuck that up with your "vision" . I felt bad for the deceased. At both times. I had the balls to say "come strong or go home" - because I'm not a putz. Prick mother fucker, possibly. I can live with that. Suck my signature's left nut.
:lol: As someone enduring a 4 year long intensive MSc in Psychotherapy who has active therapy clients I feel fairly confident in telling you to fuck off with your 8 hour grief counselling certificate or whatever bullshit makes you feel entitled to know shit about bereavement.
I love my grief tattoos. I love the somatic healing experience of working through the emotional pain through the psychical experience so suck on it.
 
Tattoos are just another form of self-mutilation, like those people who cut themselves.
Unless you were in the Navy, then it's OK.
What you call self mutilation I call self expression. It's no different than choosing to dye your hair or grow a beard. It's not anyone else's problem if you have an aversion to making a longer commitment to your body and expression than simply growing a beard, that's your problem and other people's choices about tattoos don't affect you in the slightest. Your judgemental attitude on the other hand can have real impact on people so maybe be a grown up and think about that for a second and have some respect.
 
What you call self mutilation I call self expression. It's no different than choosing to dye your hair or grow a beard. It's not anyone else's problem if you have an aversion to making a longer commitment to your body and expression than simply growing a beard, that's your problem and other people's choices about tattoos don't affect you in the slightest. Your judgemental attitude on the other hand can have real impact on people so maybe be a grown up and think about that for a second and have some respect.
I don't consider it self mutilation. Nowhere near that, not a compulsion wihich SM is.. Just looked like a bruise to me. It's not analgous to a beard - it's permanent for all practical matter. Considering how most peeps here(including self) don't trust the government, I'm wondering WHY put a god damned serial number on your body. Almost every tattoo is getting photographed and becoming part of a database when people are arrested for anything. MArk of the beast ;)

I appreciate all fuck offs. I probably should have left the original post in my head. I do get that. But you didn't actual indicate where I was wrong.
Carry on.
 
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