Today I said good bye to a lifetime friend

[Candy]

:( I have been putting it off for awhile but sometimes you have to do what you have to do. I was planning on actually trying to talk to this person to see if the damage could be repaired, but I waited too long thinking their ways would change and finally this morning everything came to a head. I can't give away too much info because some of you may know this person - this is more of a vent thread then anything else. After months of being lied to about everything from what they had for breakfast to their SO having "complications" and being in the hospital - I cut it off. The sad part is that we grew up together, and we have been there for this person through thick and thin. I would like to blame it on childhood, drugs, anything - but there is no excuse for this last bout of lies. This morning this person put me in the most difficult position yet - and didn't have the balls to even respond except for a fucking text message.

I like to think that I am a good friend. I don't tell secrets, and I will bend over every way to Sunday to help my friends out. I would give you the shirt off my back [insert boob jokes here :O ] I am sick to my stomach literally as I write this, but I have had absolutly enough and I can no longer put myself and my family in positions to fail because of one person.

So... So long!

Is this what happens when you turn 30? You finally grow up enough to realize who is important in your life and who is cancer? I ask myself, who do I REALLY need? I have a wonderful husband, family and a handful of people I can trust with my life. All could concievably wear the title "best friend."

Has anyone else been put in this position when enough is just ENOUGH? TGIF! I plan on getting stupid drunk tongiht as my entire day has gone to shit in about 20 minutes flat.

On the bright side, it is the New Year and I think there is no better way to start it then to start fresh.

[April40]

Good for you. Only keep the friends around you that make you want to be a better person, not drag you and your loved ones down. :heart:

[ERage]

I got to this point with my old best friend about 3 years ago. He always used to embellish stories when we were younger (in highschool) but it was always harmless. Then we both went to college. I eventually graduated, he did not but made up wild stories about being in aerospace engineering. I whatevered it and got a job and was living on my own. He continued telling me wild claims. Eventually he dropped out of college and now works at a cell phone retailer and still lives with his parents...but I know that through his dad who still emails with me from time to time. He started drinking heavily in college and I would say he was an alcoholic. This was part of the problem but definitely not the whole problem.

Long story short, at one time I saw this person as being the best man at my wedding one day, during my wedding I almost didn't make him a groomsman, and with good reason. He was 3 hours late and almost missed the pictures. Didn't smile in any picture, and acted like an ass the whole time during my wedding. After that I called it. Haven't heard from him since.

You'll move on, I did. Those people will never change/grow but luckily you can and will.

[shawndavid]

Good for you. Only keep the friends around you that make you want to be a better person, not drag you and your loved ones down. :heart:

You're right, Ape. You're fucking cut too. And tell Zac to come get his shit.

[April40]

You're right, Ape. You're fucking cut too. And tell Zac to come get his shit.

Ah, shucks. Give us one more try!!

[Candy]

I got to this point with my old best friend about 3 years ago. He always used to embellish stories when we were younger (in highschool) but it was always harmless. Then we both went to college. I eventually graduated, he did not but made up wild stories about being in aerospace engineering. I whatevered it and got a job and was living on my own. He continued telling me wild claims. Eventually he dropped out of college and now works at a cell phone retailer and still lives with his parents...but I know that through his dad who still emails with me from time to time. He started drinking heavily in college and I would say he was an alcoholic. This was part of the problem but definitely not the whole problem.

Long story short, at one time I saw this person as being the best man at my wedding one day, during my wedding I almost didn't make him a groomsman, and with good reason. He was 3 hours late and almost missed the pictures. Didn't smile in any picture, and acted like an ass the whole time during my wedding. After that I called it. Haven't heard from him since.

You'll move on, I did. Those people will never change/grow but luckily you can and will.


Thanks for the story - this person has been a mess several times in the company of others as well and I have excused their behavior and apologized, etc etc.

[April40]

Thanks for the story - this person has been a mess several times in the company of others as well and I have excused their behavior and apologized, etc etc.

oh my, I think I know who. :heart:

[ERage]

Thanks for the story - this person has been a mess several times in the company of others as well and I have excused their behavior and apologized, etc etc.

Been there and done that. You've done the right thing. You'll see that as the drama reduces with that person being out of your life. I was lucky enough that it got to the breaking point in my mid 20's instead of my 30's.

[Candy]

You're right, Ape. You're fucking cut too. And tell Zac to come get his shit.

Yeah, while we are at it, I think Beerad is next on the chopping block.

[Dharma1521]

I understand where you're coming from. As you may know (lol) I had to part ways with the love of my life because sometimes good people can be bad people around each other.

I've had to cut out friends as well. I put up with a lot of shit until my "friend" abandoned me while I was having surgery and I had no car, no phone, no way to get ahold of anyone. Thank God, Jeff came home early and saw that I wasn't there.

Damn people suck.

[Dharma1521]

Yeah, while we are at it, I think Beerad is next on the chopping block.

oh oh oh I'll take him.


dibs.

[ERage]

oh my, I think I know who. :heart:

Damnit Ape, it's obvious you have been an ass to her and she has you on ignore. Just let her move on with her life and get over it. :O

[Dharma1521]

Damnit Ape, it's obvious you have been an ass to her and she has you on ignore. Just let her move on with her life and get over it. :O

Oh please April is like herpes no matter how hard to try to get rid of her she keeps coming back.

[shawndavid]

I got to this point with my old best friend about 3 years ago. He always used to embellish stories when we were younger (in highschool) but it was always harmless. Then we both went to college. I eventually graduated, he did not but made up wild stories about being in aerospace engineering. I whatevered it and got a job and was living on my own. He continued telling me wild claims. Eventually he dropped out of college and now works at a cell phone retailer and still lives with his parents...but I know that through his dad who still emails with me from time to time. He started drinking heavily in college and I would say he was an alcoholic. This was part of the problem but definitely not the whole problem.

Long story short, at one time I saw this person as being the best man at my wedding one day, during my wedding I almost didn't make him a groomsman, and with good reason. He was 3 hours late and almost missed the pictures. Didn't smile in any picture, and acted like an ass the whole time during my wedding. After that I called it. Haven't heard from him since.

You'll move on, I did. Those people will never change/grow but luckily you can and will.



Boy does THIS sound familiar. I cut my best man 2 or 3 weeks prior to the wedding due to similar indiscretions, among other, more risky ones. 23 years down the shitter because someone can't behave. I guess I have myself to blame for assuming people will change and/or are different than they actually are. It destroyed me inside until just recently.

[w_a_w]

I did that recently too. people that cause copious amounts of unneeded drama get shown the door pretty quick in my life

edit: not a lifelong friend but one of a couple years who I was pretty close with

[April40]

Damnit Ape, it's obvious you have been an ass to her and she has you on ignore. Just let her move on with her life and get over it. :O

Just ... one.. more.. lie...

[Valve1080i]

Required :boobies: reference now satisfied.

[Candy]

Required :boobies: reference now satisfied.

:heart:

My friends on the internets always come through!

[b_sinning]

Sorry Candy. That's always rough.


I think my biggest instance of my giving up a friend happened 7 years ago. I had a friend that was my best friend growing up and I thought of as my brother. I went away to college but still managed to keep in touch. When I came back we moved in together. After that things started spiraling out of control. He was dealing hardcore and taking way too many risks. I was trying to put my life back together after some bad stuff and had started a respectable job. We started bumping heads a lot.
When I started dating a girl he dated for a week or two when he was 16 things went to hell. He did give me his permission and she called him the mistake. Turns out he still considered her the love of his life and was constantly talking bad about me behind my back to her and was being a dick.
Lots of bad stuff happened so he and I called it quits and I've seen him twice since then and we barely even said hey. His life did several major crashes since then and he's degraded into scum that none of his past friends will tolerate.

[April40]

I guess we all have friends like this.

I dropped a good friend of mine of whom I was inseparable with since middle school about three years ago. Of course, she has all the attributes of a bad friend, the compulsive lying, the drug overuse, erratic behavior that got the two of us in lots of trouble.

There was a time that her and I and my bf at the time were in my old Mustang driving back from somewhere and she decided to tell me while I was driving that her and the bf were seeing each other behind my back. I didn't freak out, but she sure did. (I kinda figured, but it still made me drive like a mad man) While I was going 20-30ish she decided it was a good idea to jump out of my car. Unhurt, but stupid.

Another time while she was living in South Carolina with her husband that's in the Navy, she decided to come for a visit. Okay cool, maybe we can reconcile all of our differences. She brought with her, her two year old son and her roommate/friend of her husbands. That weirded me out... I asked if her husband knew (since he was deployed and all) she said he didn't need to know. They slept in the same bed.

Cut off all ties since then. There are more drastic stories of her getting her stomach pumped and stuff. Our relationship just wasn't healthy. She had lies about everything you can think of... and would keep up with them.

[b_sinning]

You should have backed up over the bitch.

[InnerMuse]

A friend of mine, one of the few people I would have taken a bullet for, had a threesome with my BF (now the "Ex") and another acquaintence of mine. I asked her about it three times; she kept telling me they had only kissed and the night the threesome occured, she had "fallen asleep" and didn't participate. Three strikes and you're out. If she had told me the truth, I would still accociate with her. Oddly enough, it was the acquaintence who told me about it.

[KNYTE]

I've said this before: I stop interacting with people when it stops being enjoyable to do so.

[April40]

I've said this before: I stop interacting with people when it stops being enjoyable to do so.

They are all merely for your entertainment, huh?

[Sarcasmo]

Way to air your dirty laundry to the entire forum, like that was necessary for closure or being a better person. How ironic.

[April40]

Way to air your dirty laundry to the entire forum, like that was necessary for closure or being a better person. How ironic.

stfu, asshat

[KNYTE]

They are all ons, huh?

No, not at all. I've been with friends through tough situations before, but if everytime I see them they're still complaining about some skank that wronged them or mooching off of me for extended periods of time I lose interest.

[Sarcasmo]

stfu, asshat

Oh my bad. Smile and wave dude, smile and wave.

[Dharma1521]

Way to air your dirty laundry to the entire forum, like that was necessary for closure or being a better person. How ironic.

Why are you so mean today? Did Santa not get you the barely legal girl next door?

[BeerAd]

Yeah, while we are at it, I think Beerad is next on the chopping block.

You cant cut me, well you can try but thats why they call me Herpes...


You think you got rid of me but then out of nowhere BAM I reappear like a old scabby mess.

[Dharma1521]

You cant cut me, well you can try but thats why they call me Herpes...


You think you got rid of me but then out of nowhere BAM I reappear like a old scabby mess.

Hey i already used that in this thread. Fucker

[InnerMuse]

Way to air your dirty laundry to the entire forum, like that was necessary for closure or being a better person. How ironic.

*shakes head* That's not what I was intending. Admin, please remove my prev comment.
Thank you.

[w_a_w]

*shakes head* That's not what I was intending. Admin, please remove my prev comment.
Thank you.

I don't believe the comment was directed towards you

[Sarcasmo]

Why are you so mean today? Did Santa not get you the barely legal girl next door?

I just find it ironic that the purpose of such an epiphany is to make oneself better internally, not seek validation from others externally, which is what happened.

[Sarcasmo]

*shakes head* That's not what I was intending. Admin, please remove my prev comment.
Thank you.

Not you. The author of the thread.

[BeerAd]

Hey i already used that in this thread. Fucker

Sorry I had only gotten to the first quote so far, wanna spread?

[Pandora]

I feel ya Candy. :heart: It's rough parting ways with people that were once a part of you. I've lost too many friends over the years after realizing they were toxic to me. Course some of the blame falls on my own shoulders because I know I have pretty high expectations for the people I let into my life. And even tho the relationship ends with good reason, there's still the gulit....like a 'real friend' would have tried harder... It's tough, but in the long run it's best for everyone involved. And perhaps your departure can be a much needed wakeup call for the other person. After all, from every ending is a new beginning. :)

[Dharma1521]

I just find it ironic that the purpose of such an epiphany is to make oneself better internally, not seek validation from others externally, which is what happened.

Wanna hug?

[Dharma1521]

Sorry I had only gotten to the first quote so far, wanna spread?

AND I said I would take you if you got cut.


Why must you ignore me :(

[BeerAd]

oh oh oh I'll take him.


dibs.

Someone likes me, they really like me :)

[FlamingGlory]

Way to air your dirty laundry to the entire forum, like that was necessary for closure or being a better person. How ironic.

*yawn*

[BeerAd]

AND I said I would take you if you got cut.


Why must you ignore me :(

IM A SLOW READER SORRRRRRRY :heart:

[BeerAd]

So Candy you wanna get really really drunk tonight and make a complete ass out of ourselves? Cause you know I am down for getting TANKED with ya!

[Sarcasmo]

*yawn*

I said it, you're thinking it. Same thing.

[FlamingGlory]

I said it, you're thinking it. Same thing.

Maybe, but Im going to take the opposite position simply out of personal need for conflict.

[shawndavid]

I said it, you're thinking it. Same thing.

This is something that's really bothering her so she wanted to tell people she thought might just listen. She lets people do shit to her that confounds and enrages me before she finally breaks down and can't take anymore. Some people write songs, some people paint pictures; the Bub creates threads for you folks. The person she's writing of has been a fixture and a disappointment, albeit with brilliance in his field and flashes of promise in his personal life, for a long time in her life. They have know each other for many, many years and I as well have been a friend for 3 years now. Poking fun at someone's rationale for posting a trauma in her life, with the exception of inline, isn't very nice. You're one person I've yet to meet on here whom I think would be a hoot to chill with. Don't be a dick.

[Candy]

Sarcasmo - what crawled up your ass today? This was a vent - we have to listen to your bullshit trials and tribulations about how you can't find god or a woman and your baby's mama fucked you around; at least this person doesn't belong to this forum, you don't know if they are male or female, and they don't even own a fucking computer! How am I making myself out to be the good guy! Jesus - nothing like getting attacked from some douchbag who has no idea wtf he is even talking about.

[Candy]

Way to air your dirty laundry to the entire forum, like that was necessary for closure or being a better person. How ironic.


It's not my dirty laundry and how can you judge when you don't have any information nor will I give you enough to make an assumption like that?

Funny how we all know your situation. I never once have called you out - you don't like what you read - don't fucking read it!

I SAID THIS IS JUST A VENT THREAD

[Candy]

I said it, you're thinking it. Same thing.

THE DIFFERENCE IS, HE HAS CLASS. :(

[zengirl]

:(
Is this what happens when you turn 30? You finally grow up enough to realize who is important in your life and who is cancer? .

Thats pretty much what happened with me... there was a slow progression in my late 20's until things really came to a head right around the 30 mark. It's a painful process to go through but in the end it's really the best thing. :) Stay focused on the positive people in your life and you'll be amazed how that positivity will multiply!

[BeerAd]

I hate catching up on threads and being completely in the dark

[Candy]

Thats pretty much what happened with me... there was a slow progression in my late 20's until things really came to a head right around the 30 mark. It's a painful process to go through but in the end it's really the best thing. :) Stay focused on the positive people in your life and you'll be amazed how that positivity will multiply!


Thank you. I am heartbroken really but staying in the relationship was enabling this person to continue on their downward spiral. It is better for both of us.

[BeerAd]

Thank you. I am heartbroken really but staying in the relationship was enabling this person to continue on their downward spiral. It is better for both of us.

I will see you tonight but hit me up if ya need to talk more :heart:

sincerely,
your best girlfriend

[kiwi]

Thats pretty much what happened with me... there was a slow progression in my late 20's until things really came to a head right around the 30 mark. It's a painful process to go through but in the end it's really the best thing. :) Stay focused on the positive people in your life and you'll be amazed how that positivity will multiply!

Apparently you have internet again so.......


































WHERE ARE THE PICTURES?!?

[zengirl]

Thank you. I am heartbroken really but staying in the relationship was enabling this person to continue on their downward spiral. It is better for both of us.

Things will get better, you'll see. I think the worst feeling is the guilt which comes along with letting someone else down... like you somehow have the power to save this person from him/herself if you just stick it out just a little bit longer. Unfortunately it doesn't work this way. Like you said, it is best for the other person to be cut loose because as long as they have someone around enabling them or making excuses for them, theres no need for change. It's like Eleanor Roosevelt says, Nobody can disrespect you without your consent. :)

Maybe Sarcasmo is just being a douchebag with the hopes of hurrying your grieving process along to the anger phase?

[b_sinning]

My hope for the new year is the positivity multiplying thing zengirl mentioned will start happening for me.

[Dharma1521]

Thats pretty much what happened with me... there was a slow progression in my late 20's until things really came to a head right around the 30 mark. It's a painful process to go through but in the end it's really the best thing. :) Stay focused on the positive people in your life and you'll be amazed how that positivity will multiply!
holy sheet you married lady when did you get back?

[Candy]

Things will get better, you'll see. I think the worst feeling is the guilt which comes along with letting someone else down... like you somehow have the power to save this person from him/herself if you just stick it out just a little bit longer. Unfortunately it doesn't work this way. Like you said, it is best for the other person to be cut loose because as long as they have someone around enabling them or making excuses for them, theres no need for change. It's like Eleanor Roosevelt says, Nobody can disrespect you without your consent. :)

Maybe Sarcasmo is just being a douchebag with the hopes of hurrying your grieving process along to the anger phase?

LOL @ Sarcasmo - I hope so.

I SINCERELY appreciate your response. It makes perfect sense and now I don't feel like such a douchebag. 17 Years is a long time to know someone so it's sad, but I'm OK.

On another note: HOLY SHIT ARE YOU MARRIED TOO???????

Congrats - I haven't read your thread yet, it's next!

[shawndavid]

It's like Eleanor Roosevelt says, Nobody can disrespect you without your consent.

Nice pull.

She was a smart, handsome woman with a great set of upper thigh mutton chops.

[shawndavid]

When I first saw the title of this thread I thought we were either finally rid of her stinky Raggedy Ann pillow or she cut up her Dillard's card.

[April40]

When I first saw the title of this thread I thought we were either finally rid of her stinky Raggedy Ann pillow or she cut up her Dillard's card.

:lol:

[Arátoeldar]

I feel ya Candy. :heart: It's rough parting ways with people that were once a part of you. I've lost too many friends over the years after realizing they were toxic to me. Course some of the blame falls on my own shoulders because I know I have pretty high expectations for the people I let into my life. And even tho the relationship ends with good reason, there's still the gulit....like a 'real friend' would have tried harder... It's tough, but in the long run it's best for everyone involved. And perhaps your departure can be a much needed wakeup call for the other person. After all, from every ending is a new beginning. :)

There is nothing wrong with high expectations. If more people had them this world would be a better place instead of bending to the lowest common denominator. :heart:

Candy: :heart: :heart: Unfortunately sometimes you do have cut friends or family members loose.

[Sarcasmo]

THE DIFFERENCE IS, HE HAS CLASS. :(

Brilliant. I have no class because I think it's tasteless to post a "look how morally superior I am; I'm posting a private matter for all to see" thread.

Some things should be kept private. The fact that you didn't name the person doesn't mean that the thread was wrong to begin with.

Think about it for a minute. If you hold your character in such esteem, why do we all have to know about it? Isn't that a dichotomy?

[April40]

Brilliant. I have no class because I think it's tasteless to post a "look how morally superior I am; I'm posting a private matter for all to see" thread.

Some things should be kept private. The fact that you didn't name the person doesn't mean that the thread was wrong to begin with.

Think about it for a minute. If you hold your character in such esteem, why do we all have to know about it? Isn't that a dichotomy?

I didn't get that from her post. stfu fgt

[shawndavid]

Brilliant. I have no class because I think it's tasteless to post a "look how morally superior I am; I'm posting a private matter for all to see" thread.

You have no class, in this particular case, because you're a fucking dick hanging onto an ideal that you think you know about. This has nothing to do with moral superiority. My dumb-ass wife takes shit that none of us would deal with because she's a wonderful person. I can think of at least one person who is actually on this forum who has wronged her repeatedly who could attest to that.


Some things should be kept private. The fact that you didn't name the person doesn't mean that the thread was wrong to begin with.

Please, cocksucker. This thread has nothing to do with anyone on this forum. Do you seriously think Amy is holding onto the past indiscretions of a current member? She burned those plague-addled undies long ago. You don't have to stick up for the 'other' in order for her to fuck you. You only have to tell her she's pretty and pretend her Tom Foolery is clever.


Think about it for a minute. If you hold your character in such esteem, why do we all have to know about it? Isn't that a dichotomy?

A dichotomy? Look that shit up. To think I once partially revered your opinion. If you had any sense about you you'd look at the person Amy is and model yourself after her. Fuck. I wish I was as good a person as she. I'm merely a sarcastic, self-absorbed prick and you're a self-absorbed, wanton prick.

Go fuck yourself in the ass with your own seedy intentions, bro. This girl was only trying to share a very difficult divorce between herself and a virtual family member and you've turned it into a pulpit from which you can spew douche bag single fuck bullshit.

It's so funny looking at the direction this whole thread has taken and you have played the fool. I don't begrudge you your passion only the direction towards which you aim it.

[Bubbles]

I can think of at least one person who is actually on this forum who has wronged her repeatedly who could attest to that.



Please, cocksucker. This thread has nothing to do with anyone on this forum. Do you seriously think Amy is holding onto the past indiscretions of a current member? She burned those plague-addled undies long ago. You don't have to stick up for the 'other' in order for her to fuck you. You only have to tell her she's pretty and pretend her Tom Foolery is clever.


Everyone knows you are referencing me here. Your lovely wife and I had our issues and they are over, we haven't spoken in almost a year and everyone is happy. I will agree that she takes alot of shit from alot of people and she is one of the nicest people I have ever known. Having said that, I would like to point out that this thread has nothing to do with me and yet you are dragging me into it. Fuck you, you two are not a passing thought in my day and you still have to jab and make me a topic of conversation. Move on.

[April40]

Can we try to not make this a blood thirsty thread?

[ruthless]

wow, this thread went from an innocent venting to a emotional lashing.

sarcasmo you are way outta line here bro. why do you have to come on here and start bashing my sister just because shes had a rough day? you never have a bad day and want to vent? you've never been in a position you were uncomfortable in or unsure about, and wanted to know that other people have been there done that and moved on? seriously bro. this is one of those situations where you need to just click the back button on your browser. there have been things on here i definatly dont agree on or with. you dont see my jumping on here flailing my e-penis around trying to start ruckus.

just ignore it and go post whore it up in another thread.

as for the bubbles thing, im not sure of the situation, im just noticing it seems to be an off site topic. so why dont we try and keep it that way.

[Dharma1521]

I so fake hate you April!

[April40]

I so fake hate you April!

:slap:

[Dharma1521]

:slap:

Oh yeah


CAT FIGHT

[ruthless]

wheres my damn popcorn.... this will be a good warm up the the ufc fights tonight....


LETS GET IT ON!!!!!

[April40]

wheres my damn popcorn.... this will be a good warm up the the ufc fights tonight....


LETS GET IT ON!!!!!

Pudding could make UFC more interesting. :fly:

[ruthless]

we talking about on the fighters or the ring girls? ;)

[Dharma1521]

I think pudding could make EVERYTHING more interesting.

Try being sad while eating pudding!!! Not possible.

[ruthless]

i dont know, i got pudding on my shoes one time, and that almost broke my heart. *sniffels*

dont mess with the shoes, people get killed for smudging pumas

[April40]

we talking about on the fighters or the ring girls? ;)

The dudes of course, beerad would concur.

[ruthless]

hell beerad would run everybody over, for the opportunity to be the one applying the puding! lol

[Valve1080i]

Brilliant. I have no class because I think it's tasteless to post a "look how morally superior I am; I'm posting a private matter for all to see" thread.

Some things should be kept private. The fact that you didn't name the person doesn't mean that the thread was wrong to begin with.

Think about it for a minute. If you hold your character in such esteem, why do we all have to know about it? Isn't that a dichotomy?


You're still a bed wetter aren't you.

[Candy]

Everyone knows you are referencing me here. Your lovely wife and I had our issues and they are over, we haven't spoken in almost a year and everyone is happy. I will agree that she takes alot of shit from alot of people and she is one of the nicest people I have ever known. Having said that, I would like to point out that this thread has nothing to do with me and yet you are dragging me into it. Fuck you, you two are not a passing thought in my day and you still have to jab and make me a topic of conversation. Move on.


Thanks Erica; I appreciate the fact that you point out I am not a "passing thought in your day." You can be just as nasty as he can be. Unfortunatly I turn the fucking radio on and there you are so I don't have a choice.

I agree this should have been said in a different way here - but please - WE all know thats what he thought.

[Candy]

Brilliant. I have no class because I think it's tasteless to post a "look how morally superior I am; I'm posting a private matter for all to see" thread.

Some things should be kept private. The fact that you didn't name the person doesn't mean that the thread was wrong to begin with.

Think about it for a minute. If you hold your character in such esteem, why do we all have to know about it? Isn't that a dichotomy?

I never said my character was so wonderful. Talk about keeping shit private; your cheating ex babies mama story is not something that should be kept private? You defamed her all over the place. Don't be a hypocrite and stay out of shit you know nothing about. You still won't adress why WE all know about what a fuck up your baby's momma is, etc etc.

Please leave me alone. You are just plain mean. The fact that I keep even addressing this with you is making me question my own sanity. Do us all a favor and keep your nasty remarks and your bitterness twords others for your babies mama or whomever else you think may listen and or care. I've had enough.

Someone please lock this thread. :(

[FlamingGlory]

You people have issues. I've no taste for drama though.

[FlamingGlory]

Ok, there is no option to lock threads in flymart anymore. Cant say I didnt try.

[Bubbles]

Thanks Erica; I appreciate the fact that you point out I am not a "passing thought in your day." You can be just as nasty as he can be. Unfortunatly I turn the fucking radio on and there you are so I don't have a choice.

I agree this should have been said in a different way here - but please - WE all know thats what he thought.

Look, I wasn't trying to be nasty but I'm tired of you guys jabbing me on here. I'm just trying to pass the time on the internet just like you. I don't haunt your threads or your posts, I don't badmouth you, and I don't drag you in where you don't belong. All have been done to me here, mostly by shawn and brad.

As a matter of fact he does not think your story is about me because he asked me if it was before he ever posted in this thread. And while we're on the subject of Sarcasmo when did he say his baby momma was a cheating bitch and how do you know it wasn't for entertainment purposes only?

And I was on the radio one fucking day, you're gonna have to get over that.

[mikey]

Ok, there is no option to lock threads in flymart anymore. Cant say I didnt try.



How very interesting. Where did the thread options go?

[Dharma1521]

How very interesting. Where did the thread options go?

Hey Mikey are you back from Canada?



change the topic change the topic OH MY GOD PLEASE change the topic.

[mikey]

I'm pretty sure I've told you about my friends of the past, Amy. It gives you a chance to reflect on the decent people you know and make wiser choices with new friends. Odds are I would have never met all of you guys if my previous friends didn't go ape shit. I am rather glad they did.

[mikey]

Hey Mikey are you back from Canada?



change the topic change the topic OH MY GOD PLEASE change the topic.

Yep, back from Canada. It was just a short trip to Niagara Falls and surrounding wine country. I played tour guide.


Why change the topic? It is a decent subject. A couple people complain perpetually about spam and worthless threads and this one has potential. Amy made a difficult choice and some people seek solace in friends when they have to do something like that. Amy is a great person, a friend. I don't mind trying to cheer her up.

[Candy]

Yep, back from Canada. It was just a short trip to Niagara Falls and surrounding wine country. I played tour guide.


Why change the topic? It is a decent subject. A couple people complain perpetually about spam and worthless threads and this one has potential. Amy made a difficult choice and some people seek solace in friends when they have to do something like that. Amy is a great person, a friend. I don't mind trying to cheer her up.

Thanks Mikey, this has gotten way out of hand. Meh, I'm over it - I feel totally better and after reading my responses back to Sarcasmo, etc I laugh because I let someone on the fucking internets fire me up.

:heart:

[ruthless]

Thanks Mikey, this has gotten way out of hand. Meh, I'm over it - I feel totally better and after reading my responses back to Sarcasmo, etc I laugh because I let someone on the fucking internets fire me up.

:heart:

amy, I LOVE YOU! :heart: :D

[wanko80]

All I know of Bubbles is her fabulous breasts. So I side with her.

Just sayin'.

[wanko80]

Oh, not to double post or whatnot, but as I don't care, you will love with it...

Did you guys forget to comprehend what the name Sarcasmo means? Why did people start taking everyone so serious on here?

[Sp`ange]

Is this what happens when you turn 30? You finally grow up enough to realize who is important in your life and who is cancer? I ask myself, who do I REALLY need? I have a wonderful husband, family and a handful of people I can trust with my life. All could concievably wear the title "best friend."

Funny that you say that, though I'm not quite 30 yet (29), but I did recently decide to not maintain anymore relationships that are one-sided.

I just get tired of being the one to keep up the relationship and doing all the favors. Not worth my time or my energy anymore. Lately, I just don't care.

[JPatrick]

I haven't read this thread, but I'm just gonna suggest everyone take a midol and go have a good cry.

[shawndavid]

I haven't read this thread, but I'm just gonna suggest everyone take a midol and go have a good cry.

I tried it and it hasn't worked.

[w_a_w]

I tried it and it hasn't worked.

you forgot to shove a manpon in your ass :fly:

[Floptical]

This thread makes me wanna do this.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kzSrZJ_pC3o

[fly]

you forgot to shove a manpon in your ass :fly:

no he didnt. :hi2u:

[Dharma1521]

no he didnt. :hi2u:


LIke omg Daddy's Home!!!!

[April40]

LIke omg Daddy's Home!!!!

He is!!! :does a little dance:

[Dharma1521]

He is!!! :does a little dance:

so you're done having sex?

In regards to your title, Jesus may love you but SATAN WANTS YOUR SOUL.

[April40]

so you're done having sex?

In regards to your title, Jesus may love you but SATAN WANTS YOUR SOUL.


Once you get to be my age, you have to do DVDA.

[worm]

Once you get to be my age, you have to do DVDA.

Grease 'em up boys!!!!

And I still believe we can call them the naughty twins.....

[April40]

Grease 'em up boys!!!!

And I still believe we can call them the naughty twins.....

No no no, they're the assfuck twins... they get fucked in the ass, get it?

[elpmis]

Way to air your dirty laundry to the entire forum, like that was necessary for closure or being a better person. How ironic.

Candy is a real sweetheart in person. I don't expect her to be webforum savvy, like say Sarcasmo.

[Ryokurin]

My new outlook is to say, goodbye to rubbish.

[Candy]

Funny that you say that, though I'm not quite 30 yet (29), but I did recently decide to not maintain anymore relationships that are one-sided.

I just get tired of being the one to keep up the relationship and doing all the favors. Not worth my time or my energy anymore. Lately, I just don't care.

Most adult friendships are one sided.
:(

[fly]

Most adult friendships are one sided.
:(

I disagree. You're just too nice to everyone. :hs:

[wanko80]

I disagree. You're just too nice to everyone. :hs:
Apparently. Friendships are only one sided if you allow them to be. And those aren't really friendships anyway as much as therapy relationships for those people.

[Thorn Bird]

i think good friendships in the grown years are few and far between. it becomes quality, not quantity. that's where you find the difference in the sidedness.

[April40]

i think good friendships in the grown years are few and far between. it becomes quality, not quantity. that's where you find the difference in the sidedness.

Ahhh highschool, when having more friends than everyone else was the most important thing.

[ruthless]

what makes a friend though? what qualities and/or characterists do you look for?

i have a handfull of good friends that i know have my back no matter what. then i have an extremely large portion of -respected associats.

then i have the 10,000,000,000 people i ride with and hang out with at shows and do dvd's with and all that crap.

but when do you really consider someone a friend, or a good/close friend? are there different levels of friendship?

[BeerAd]

Look, I wasn't trying to be nasty but I'm tired of you guys jabbing me on here. I'm just trying to pass the time on the internet just like you. I don't haunt your threads or your posts, I don't badmouth you, and I don't drag you in where you don't belong. All have been done to me here, mostly by shawn and brad.

I tend not to pick on you, I tend to just make fun of some of the stupid ass things you reveal. Like having your breast on the internet for all to see being weighed by a meat market scale with dirty ass stickers covering only your nipple like you are working at a up-"scale" strip club. Your lack of dignity should not be my taboo subject if you put it on a "scale" for the world to see.


As a matter of fact he does not think your story is about me because he asked me if it was before he ever posted in this thread. And while we're on the subject of Sarcasmo when did he say his baby momma was a cheating bitch and how do you know it wasn't for entertainment purposes only?

I am sure the rant started before him asking if it was you, there would be no other reason for it unless he thought it was you.

And I was on the radio one fucking day, you're gonna have to get over that.

dont bring it up then

shoudl have never been brought up, bwhahahhahahaa

[fly]

fyi, i worked long and hard on the ignore feature for a reason.

[BeerAd]

fyi, i worked long and hard on the ignore feature for a reason.

Sweet then she can ignore my post's, I dont feel the need to ignore hers ;)

[fly]

this user is on your ignore list

what?

[BeerAd]

what?

tear :(

you ignored me :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:

[BeerAd]

Is this because I humped Ape in your leave? I thought you would be happy about that

[April40]

Is this because I humped Ape in your leave? I thought you would be happy about that

Was I coherent during this?

[BeerAd]

Was I coherent during this?

No, neither was dharma, how have you forgotten already, you didnt feel it, come on now!

[shawndavid]

I was wondering why your finger smelled/tasted so bad.

[BeerAd]

I was wondering why your finger smelled/tasted so bad.

Oh yeah, it was definately some dirty dirty vag. Btw my finger still hurts

[Dharma1521]

I was wondering why your finger smelled/tasted so bad.

Oh helz no.

[FlamingGlory]

Like having your breast on the internet for all to see being weighed by a meat market scale with dirty ass stickers covering only your nipple like you are working at a up-"scale" strip club.

Wait... Links?

[BeerAd]

Wait... Links?

jezzzzz your slow

http://www.uselessforums.com/showpost.php?p=315124&postcount=47

[BeerAd]

you're*


dick

[FlamingGlory]

you're*


dick
:lol:

jezzzzz your slow

http://www.uselessforums.com/showpost.php?p=315124&postcount=47

I never read that thread!

[BeerAd]

:lol:



I never read that thread!

I wish I had never read it either

[w_a_w]

if you said goodbye forever then they obviously aren't a lifetime friend ;)

[BeerAd]

if you said goodbye forever then they obviously aren't a lifetime friend ;)

See this is witty and funny, unlike sarcasmo bwhahahaha

[fly]

See this is witty and funny, unlike sarcasmo bwhahahaha

it is?

[shawndavid]

it is?

If one is neither witty nor funny, yes.

[plot]

I thought this thread was going to be about a pet you recently had to put to sleep or something.

Instead, it turned out to be a depressing thread. :(

Well... more depressing than I had anticipated... possibly less... hell, I'd take my childhood cat over any one of my current friends any day.

[Candy]

For the record I don't feel bad anymore - turns out this person was even more of a douche than I thought.

[April40]

:omy: even worse than believed?!

[BeerAd]

Dam Tequila, whos fuckin idea was that, i hurt

[Candy]

:omy: even worse than believed?!

Yes. God yes.

[Candy]

Dam Tequila, whos fuckin idea was that, i hurt

The Italian Stallion that gave me the 5 dollars for the jukebox. I hurt too. Another goddamn reason to hate 30.

[April40]

Yes. God yes.

unpossible.

[BeerAd]

The Italian Stallion that gave me the 5 dollars for the jukebox. I hurt too. Another goddamn reason to hate 30.

bwahahahahah, I think he started hitting on me when you left :eek: :fly: :fly: :fly: :fly:

[shawndavid]

bwahahahahah, I think he started hitting on me when you left :eek: :fly: :fly: :fly: :fly:

He's definitely a tit man then.

[BeerAd]

He's definitely a tit man then.

def.

[Dream]

I have only met you once Candy...and I think you ROCK!
I hope you are recovering and that you continue to feel good about your decision.

[April40]

I have only met you once Candy...and I think you ROCK!
I hope you are recovering and that you continue to feel good about your decision.

You haven't been around in a while, wtf?!

[Dream]

You haven't been around in a while, wtf?!

I just got back from Oregon and spent most of today trying to recover from the trip and from getting sick on the trip. Glad to know it was noticed I was not around as much. :heart:

[April40]

I just got back from Oregon and spent most of today trying to recover from the trip and from getting sick on the trip. Glad to know it was noticed I was not around as much. :heart:

You're one of our nicer members, come on now.

[Valve1080i]

You're one of our nicer members, cum on now.


Oh my.

[April40]

Oh my.

Dirty boy.

[Candy]

I have only met you once Candy...and I think you ROCK!
I hope you are recovering and that you continue to feel good about your decision.

:heart: I do and Thank you!